It was a huge hall which had white canvas that ran on all the four sides of the room, for three feet high from the floor. Tubes, bottles and cakes of paints.. thin, thick, round and flat brushes.. pieces of scrap cloth in various colours and textures, were the materials to be used on the canvas.
Using all these materials were parents and children occupying the canvas, for every few feet. No theme was given. The only instruction was that each parent and child had to paint in the space given, and at the same time.
Here was a parent using dark shades while their child used bright colours.
There was a child who used clearly demarcated shapes and the parent used a free style painting.
On this side was a child, who looked at the parent’s painting and replicated the design. On that side was a parent, who kept directing the child to replicate their design.
“Oops, why did you mess the place up? Now we have lost time.” cried a parent. Yet another smilingly waited for their child to clean up the paint that was spilt, and in a while both resumed their painting together.
One space of canvas had the parent occupying most of it, while the child had a teeny weeny space for themselves to paint and seemed happy with it.
Another space far away from them, had the parent mumblingly painting the smaller space available while the child was occupying a larger portion of the available space.
Every now and then, this parent would look at the painting made by their child and say, “Lovely to see you doing your best.” However that parent there, appeared unhappily looking at their child’s painting and met no look of the child.
A few spaces away was a parent who would suddenly remark to their child, “Maybe you should take a leaf out of the painting that the child there is doing”. The neighbouring parent was heard saying, “It is fine to be imperfectly perfect. Paint what you want.”
One child painted everything while the parent did nothing. In another space, it was just the opposite.
Here was a child telling their parent who was petrified to paint, that any kind of painting is acceptable. There was a parent telling the child, that to be the best, going to an art class was essential.
The parent coloured the canvas so much that their space of the canvas tore, while the child was lost in looking at what was lost.
Multiple colours.. Varying shades..
Different strokes by different folks.. Every parent has a context and every child a background. Is every taken space in the canvas, a reflection of their context and background? Only that parent and that child would be aware of that..
There were no judges nor evaluators in this hall, except themselves.
What if they wanted to occupy the space to paint it differently? Well, action begins always at home!!
November 18, 2022 at 7:30 am
Beautifully written Malathy.Provoked me to think about life and living.How true that we should not be judgemental at all.
November 22, 2022 at 7:35 am
Thank you very much, Kavitha..
October 19, 2022 at 11:25 pm
Malathy…an interesting read. This only reflects the inner thoughts and feelings of the parents on how to mould their child. Actions speak louder than words.
Very much enjoyed your article.
October 23, 2022 at 1:45 pm
Thank you, Manni..
October 19, 2022 at 1:26 am
Absolutely brilliant articulation of the thought waves, which generate in the minds of children and adults. Enjoyed reading
October 23, 2022 at 1:45 pm
Thank you so much..
October 15, 2022 at 1:36 am
Malathy – evaluation is a double-edged sword isn’t it?
Art is a medium of expression, yet very often it is guided…. In which case whose expression is it? The facilitator or the one who is drawing it?
October 18, 2022 at 10:54 am
Any form of expression is always guided, Rajani.. We are always told how to do, what to do etc.. I guess it is only wehn we grow older, do we express how we want to.. Here again we are guided by the social norms..
October 13, 2022 at 7:44 pm
WOW! Amazing to hear of the variety of thought processes that went in! The canvas held the thoughts and attitudes, not the paintings as such! Powerful indeed.
October 18, 2022 at 10:51 am
Thank you so much..