Life is a game of sports!!
Competitive by nature,
Making it a race to run.
You are in the race, by choice or by chance,
If by choice, you are always running it,
If by chance, the race wanted you to run in it.
Winning or losing may not be your belief nor in your agenda,
neither is participating,
Well, life makes its own decisions and you may have no choice in the matter,
Participate you will, to win or to lose.
Someone else’s loss leads to your win,
and your loss to someone else’s win,
Sometimes it is a ‘do or die’,
You always decide ‘to do’ but what is the outcome, is not in your control.
Not always do you want to win,
there are times when you want to lose,
It depends on how dear the outcome is to you.
Cheer you will,
for yourself and for others.
A question oft asked – should life be competitive? Can’t it be collaborative? Should there be winners and losers? Can’t we all be winners?
Well, life is many schools of thoughts,
There are no rights and no wrongs.
Scoring points is a part of the game,
the points needn’t be in numbers but in the way you play the game.
You play the game, the way that only you can play,
How others play it, is immaterial.
You are your own benchmark.. you are your own scoreboard.. you are your own refree.. you are your own medal.. you are your own trophy.. you are your own champion.. you are your own critique.. and you are your own cheerleader..
If you are all this, do you need anyone else to validate who you are??
March 18, 2024 at 10:11 pm
Good read Malati.
Normally, ordinary people look forward to external validation. But it is true that we should do cheering up for ourselves. It is necessary to boost our confidence. But I wish I could depend on that at least sometimes.
I appreciate your style of writing, Malati.
March 20, 2024 at 11:27 am
Thanks Valsala.. Isn’t easy and always a work in progress!! π
March 18, 2024 at 12:23 am
Is life a game of sports…. well a thought to ponder…. nice Malathy
March 18, 2024 at 3:47 am
Thanks Vijaya..
March 18, 2024 at 12:11 am
Very nicely penned.
March 18, 2024 at 3:46 am
Thanks Radha
March 17, 2024 at 7:50 pm
Fantastic …loved itβ€οΈππ€πππ
March 17, 2024 at 8:09 pm
Thanks much da..
March 17, 2024 at 7:38 pm
Your writing is getting very poetic and is gripping indeed. A much higher level of skill, becomes an ART.
“The only competition worthy of a wise person is with oneself”… continuous improvement givens a sense of growth as we march on in the journey of the infinite.
Comparison, if done by oneself, with an intent to learn and improve doesn’t lead to stress; else it’s chaos.
March 17, 2024 at 8:09 pm
Thank you.. Kaizen always!!
March 17, 2024 at 6:57 pm
I wish I wish I wish
March 17, 2024 at 8:08 pm
Isn’t it? Was thinking of you when I wrote some of those lines π